Weekly Wins 45: 9 Quick Takeaways from the Parenting Unfiltered Summit!

In interviewing guests for the Parenting Unfiltered Summit, several key themes came up repeatedly, showing just how universal certain parenting challenges and lessons are. The blog today is dedicated to the common insights that emerged:

In no particular order:

1. You Never Stop Learning—Both Good and Bad.

Parenting is a lifelong learning process. It's so cliche, sorry!  There are constant lessons, whether it’s adapting to a child’s evolving needs or learning from mistakes. Some lessons are hard-earned, while others bring happiness/contentment/proud moments, but the journey is ever-changing, ALWAYS.

2. Community is Invaluable and Necessary—Both Online and Offline.

The power of a strong community can’t be overstated. Whether it’s connecting with other parents locally and/or joining online support groups, these networks provide reassurance, practical advice, and emotional backing. Parents often expressed how much easier it is to navigate parenting with a village of people who understand and care.

3. The Importance of Having Good People Around You.  

Similar but different to #2 in that it's essential to surround yourself with those who uplift and encourage you. Supportive friends, family, and professionals create a positive environment where both parents and children can thrive. The right people can help lighten the load, offer fresh perspectives, and keep you going when times get tough.  And there's plenty of tough moments as a parent - remember - I don't know where people thought it wouldn't be hard.

4. No Parent is Perfect—Lean In and Be Vulnerable in Supportive Environments.

Striving for perfection is a trap. In reality, everyone is figuring it out as they go, and it’s okay to ask for help, or call it support. Embracing vulnerability in safe, supportive spaces allows parents to be honest about their struggles, which helps foster connection and growth and ultimately makes your sense of self and purpose enhanced - who wouldn't want that!?

5. Sometimes Awareness is Enough to Create Space, Patience, and Empathy.

Simply being aware of a diagnosis or challenge can change everything. When you understand what’s going on with your child/partner/yourself, it becomes easier to manage the situation with empathy and patience, allowing for more meaningful progress rather than frustration/shame/guilt/resentment.

6. Kids AND Adults Are Overstimulated ON THE Daily.

In today’s fast-paced world, both parents and children are often overwhelmed with constant stimulation from screens, schedules, and endless tasks. Finding ways to slow down and create intentional moments of calm can bring much-needed balance.  This takes PRACTICE people!

7. Be Kind—To Yourself and Everyone.

Parenting requires immense patience, and kindness goes a long way—especially toward yourself and your child/ren. It’s important to extend grace not only to others but also internally, as parenting can bring out feelings of inadequacy or frustration. Be kind and recognise AND celebrate your own efforts.

8. There Are Seasons of Life—They All Require Acceptance and Adaptations.

Parenting is made up of seasons, each with its own challenges and rewards. Some seasons are harder than others, but they ALL eventually pass (cue my tears!). The key is to remain flexible and open to change, adapting as needed to better meet the moment’s needs.  Note, I did not say this was easy, but if you are aware of the other points above and below, you're half way there I think!

9. Don’t Compare Yourself or Your Family.

Comparison is a thief of joy, another cliche, but true isn't it! Each child, family, and parenting journey is unique. Instead of looking at others and feeling inadequate, it's crucial to focus on what’s working for you and your family. Avoiding comparison helps build confidence and fosters a healthier dynamic.

I loved doing these interviews for the summit - I'm so grateful everyone was open to sharing, so vulnerable to sharing their personal journey and when the filter came down, we're just all individuals colliding together as a family trying to do our best in this amazing world we live in.  Seeking support and leaning into vulnerability can lead to growth and fulfilment - both our growth, and the ripple effect to our children's growth and fulfilment.

Humbled, grateful and bursting with love.  Thank you everyone for participating in the summit as an interviewee AND ALSO as a viewer!  I hope you enjoyed our first, and not last, Parenting Unfiltered Summit.

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